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While we wish you a merry and bright Christmas, we know that for some it can be an overwhelming, anxiety inducing or sad season. Take a mental health moment. Here are some ideas from our partner, Mental Health Mates.

Bryony Gordon
Mental Health Mates
Founder
Something to read “'Let Down Your Hair' by Susie Boyt. Reading is my favourite thing - I try and read at least two hours each night as escapism! This was the last book I read, and it’s probably my favourite of the year - a tender, painful but often amusing take on motherhood and addiction.”
Something to do “Walk, because my mental illness wants me trapped inside my own head and getting out is a momentary rebellion against it.”
Something to eat “Toast and honey, every morning, something comforting and reassuring to start my day.”
Somewhere to walk “Wandsworth Common, because it’s local and it enables me to imagine I am in the countryside, and not the crowded city.”

Melissa Hemsley
Mental Health Mates
Ambassador
Something to read “My favourite book this year, spotted it in a bookshop, is WONDERLAND - a year of Britain’s wildlife day by day. I try to remember to read each day in the morning as a one-minute ritual and then when I go on my daily walks, try to spot what they were talking about.”
Something to do “Have a rest at any time of the day. Take a 10-minute cat nap, 30-minute siesta or a snooze. Sometimes I just close by eyes for 10 minutes to give them a break. Ideally, I’ll sit by the window or on doorstep or outside to do it, but I always feel better when I just…stop.”
Something to eat “A big hearty bowl of soup - I especially love ones with a base on onions, garlic and ginger as they are the ones I grew up on (my Mum is from the Philippines). They are so fragrant and feel good, plus easy and affordable to make.”
Something to Spot “I’ve been trying to open up my ears to listen to birdsong. I’m still rubbish at identifying them, but I enjoy trying all the same!”
Somewhere to Walk “I love Epping Forest in Essex as it’s close to me, I’m east London and it’s full of trails and lakes and history. You can ‘feel lost in it’ but thankfully not actually get lost as its well signposted!”

Sean Fletcher
Mental Health Mates
Ambassador
Something to read “I’m enjoying Katie Piper’s book, ‘Start Your Day With Katie: 365 Affirmations for a Year of Positive Thinking’, at the moment. There’s a positive inspirational thought, quote or mantra to read every day before you head out into the world.”
Something to do “Run - it is not an understatement to say running has changed my life. Exercise is so important for my mental health. Our bodies release endorphins when we run and I feel slightly high for the rest of the day after a jog. It’s like all the positive thoughts in my head are aligned after a run.”
Something to eat “Apple/rhubarb/blackberry (or any other fruit) crumble with custard. You can’t have comfort foods all the time. But treats are important for your mental well-being from time to time.”
Something to spot “A robin in your garden or local park. The robin who visits our garden often stands quite close to keep an eye on what I’m up to. That moment when you look at each other is priceless - it makes me smile, and I find it incredibly comforting.”
Somewhere to Walk “I never tire of walking along the Wales Coast Path. Wherever you start along it, you’re surrounded by breath-taking scenery. It may be the wind, or the sounds of the sea, or just the fact that I’m in my beloved Wales, I find it cleanses my mind, in a way that no other location can.”

Rebecca Priestley
Mental Health Mates
Executive Director
Something to read “’Sorrow and Bliss’ by Meg Mason - a brilliantly clever and engaging story of mental illness that made me laugh and cry. Reading is my total escape and I read every night before I go to sleep.”
Something to do “This might not be a surprise but ‘Walking and Talking’…both of them keep me sane and help me especially during challenging or stressful times. When I do the two together it feels like the best therapy possible.”
Something to eat “Anything with Marmite! I absolutely love it and will eat it with cheese, eggs, avocado…pretty much anything!
Something to Spot “My toddler is obsessed with ‘aminals’ (!) so we are always looking for different animals we can see when we walk together.”
Somewhere to walk “I live in Hampshire and am surrounded by beautiful fields but also the River Test, so I am spoilt for choice. We only moved down here recently so I am still exploring but I love the combination of the water and rolling countryside.”

Michelle
Mental Health Mates Walk Leader
- Leeds
Something to read “Simple affirmations that I have written or gathered whilst I was well and placed somewhere I can easily find. These might be in a card from a friend, or something I wrote and can be as simple as to remind me that I am loved. These serve to me remind me that the darkness passes.”
Something to do “Call a friend - with no intention. I tend to withdraw so keeping connected is so important. Our mental health can make us believe that we’re incapable of being loved, but connection is vital.”
Something to eat “Some homemade soup - I often don’t feel like cooking and always forget how easy soup is to make.”
Something to walk “The changing of the Season, the tree leaves are changing colour, the birds are migrating South, woodlands are rich with fruits - a truly natural wonder and sensory overload.”
Somewhere to walk “The Beach - an early morning walk at low tide in the non-Summer months (preferably with a dog) is a real treat and refreshing. There’s usually nobody else about and you feel like the only person in the world.”

This season we’ve partnered with Mental Health Mates, a network of peer support started by bestselling author and columnist, Bryony Gordon in 2016. Run by people who experience their own mental health issues, they meet regularly to walk, connect and share without fear or judgement.
To find out more, read Bryony Gordon’s self-care tips here. Want to get involved? Whether you want to pull on your boots and head out for a walk with others or learn how start your own local meet-up, you’re in the right place…
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